I’ve fallen for a married man in his 50s. Since he’s married, I’m trying to hold myself back from seeing him whenever I want.
Does it wear men out when a woman messages them too often on LINE?
I want to take him away from his wife.
I’m “0603 Osaka Tokyo,” a new respondent.
Since I’m in my 50s myself, I chose this question as my first answer.
I do think it’s generally a good thing for a man to be liked by a woman so much that she thinks, “I want him all to myself.” That said, men have their own circumstances, and I imagine many of them find it quite tiring to exchange more than a few messages a day.
In my case, I’d feel a little lonely if we had absolutely no LINE contact before seeing each other again. It would also make me think she probably wasn’t that interested in me. So if another woman catches my interest, I tend to prioritize her, and the priority of meeting someone who doesn’t contact me much gradually drops.
I wouldn’t say we message every day, but we do exchange messages like, “What would you like to eat next time?” “Which area would you prefer?” or “Is there anywhere you’d like to try?”
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Whether it feels tiring depends on the person, as well as the situation and their mood at the time.
If someone keeps sending you messages and asking questions while lumping everyone into the same category, you’d probably find it annoying more often than not.
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It’s fine to send a LINE message as part of the conversation.
But it’s probably best not to send follow-up messages if they haven’t replied. When several unread messages are piling up, even women don’t feel like opening them.
In my case, if someone plays games, I completely lose interest. For example, if we’ve already made plans to meet and she messages, “Are you still okay for today? I need to rearrange my work schedule,” I’ll reply, “Please prioritize your work,” and cancel. She may continue sending LINE messages saying she still wants to meet, but once she’s said something that suggests the meeting might not happen, I won’t meet her. I’m busy, so I quickly make other plans.
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