As you wish, lol.
I’ll be blunt and tell it like it is, without sugarcoating:
- He got bored.
- He found someone else he liked better.
- His sex drive decreased—or disappeared.
- His wife found out.
- Work got busier.
- He reached mandatory retirement from his position, so his income dropped.
- Work stopped going well, so his income dropped.
- The woman started to smell.
- The woman got older.
- The woman’s body shape changed.
- The woman got married.
- She became looser down there.
These days, thanks to both genetics and individual effort, men and women alike are judged more by how young they actually look than by their age on paper. So I guess appearance and maintaining one’s figure matter more than the number itself.
I’ll do my best too, so I don’t get broken up with!
I have to admit, when the sex starts feeling repetitive and she just lies there passively, I find myself wanting to end things.
Looks and personality can make up for that to some extent, though. Men put in effort too, but if a woman doesn’t genuinely like the man or show it in her attitude, the relationship won’t last for several years.
Even among the women I’ve met through a club, the ones I’ve stayed involved with for more than three years—and my ordinary girlfriends, partners, wife, and ex-wife—I haven’t had anyone I met after turning 30 whom I eventually parted ways with.
I’ll share a few traits that seem to help these relationships continue without ending.
With women from a club, even though they’re club women, the ones who interact with me naturally and genuinely tend to have conversations and mannerisms that are similar to those of a daughter or girlfriend—almost the same, perhaps. None of them try to constantly keep me pleased.
That naturalness seems to be the key. Unlike women who are too accustomed to papa-katsu and are overly perfect or too skilled at making their partner feel well taken care of, I hardly ever feel like I’m doing papa-katsu at all.
A few examples that come to mind:
- They immediately say whatever they want to say.
- They openly and innocently show every emotion—happiness, anger, sadness, and joy.
- Our LINE messages can be just a word or two.
- We don’t normally message each other constantly, but if I send something hoping for a reaction, they respond right away.
- When we’re both available, we may meet several days in a row, or even on the same day.
Thinking about it the other way around:
- They choose their words carefully.
- They only show happiness and amusement.
- Their LINE messages are consistently polite and proper.
- They don’t ask me for advice, and it’s difficult to expect any reaction from them.
- The way we meet feels less natural, with less excitement or romantic spark.
