Men I meet for the first or second time here often ask me things like, “Do you meet quite a few other people?” or “What are things like with the others?”
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Honestly, I’m not sure how to answer. What would be the most tactful way to respond? I’m not seriously falling for anyone, so I don’t think they’d be particularly jealous just because I’m seeing someone else, but…
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I think it depends on the person and the situation, but without giving an exact number, you could say something like:
“Thanks to the club, I’ve received a few offers.”
If they keep pressing, ask them in return:
“How about you?”
That should work. If you say you only have one papa (a male supporter), they might get the wrong idea. And if you give an exact number, they may get jealous or lose interest.
Honestly, I think it’s fine to tailor your answer depending on how much priority you give that particular papa.
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No papa wants to lavish large sums of money and gifts on a woman who has lots of other papas. So, basically, I think you’ll get more in return if you say that he’s the only one.
When I was asked something like this, I would say, “I’ve received offers, but it’s been difficult to get close to anyone because we could never find a date for a second meeting, or because of [something else].”
For the “[something else]” part, it’s a good idea to mention an attribute that the papa asking the question wants to show off.
For example, if he’s young, you could say that the other papas were too old and you didn’t have much to talk about. If he likes to show off his muscles, you could say the other papas were too out of shape, but that you like his physique. It’s good to skillfully appeal to his desire for validation and special treatment.
That said, this only works if he already likes you quite a bit. Otherwise, it may come across as too calculated unless you’re genuinely sincere.
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There are always going to be some people who ask gauche questions.
- “I don’t have any other papas.” (The same logic as saying an idol doesn’t have a boyfriend.)
- “I have a few male friends, though.” (Other papas count as male friends.)
- “My schedule stopped lining up with my other papas, so I’m looking for someone whose availability matches mine.” (Along with a little “my love life isn’t going well” appeal.)
- “I want to cherish the time we have now, so I’d rather you didn’t ask about things like that.” (Answer sadly, and the older guy will get all heart-fluttery over you—“Kimi ni, Mune Kyun” by Y.M.O.)
Some papas are very possessive, while others will make a fuss about having been deceived, so handle that part carefully.
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You probably don’t need to continue seeing a man who asks about things like that right from the first meeting (which you wouldn’t want to be asked about out of the blue).
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