I joined Universe about six months ago. Right after signing up, a few dozen people added me to their favorites, but I only received one offer. (I think the reason was that I didn’t send “interested” messages to the people who had favorited me.) Then, after about five months, I received just one more offer—for a total of two.
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I think I’m reasonably cute, and since I’m young, I feel like I should have fairly decent market value. So what am I missing…?
Right now, I’m sending messages to anyone and everyone on a site called Patro, but it hasn’t really led to any offers.
I’d really appreciate it if anyone with experience could give me some advice.
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I used to use Universe Club’s favorites feature, but I think I only actually made offers to about 10% of the women I favorited.
On Patro, women would frequently message me, but I never made an offer because of that. At first, I would politely reply to decline, but it became too uncomfortable, so I’ve now hidden my profile.
Looking at the profiles, there are a lot of young, cute women, so I think even someone reasonably cute like you can quickly get buried. There are also women who are reasonably cute but receive zero offers, so two offers may not be that bad after all.
Unless you have some additional appeal to highlight, I don’t think the situation will change.
If it were Wa○Wa○ Mail, you’d probably get plenty of offers, though lol.
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If you’re truly cute and attractive, you should be getting more offers, so I think something may be missing.
It’s hard to say without seeing your profile, though…
I don’t think replying to favorites is all that effective. My impression is that it’s better than doing nothing, but only just.
If you really want to increase your offers, you could register with Universe Lounge and meet people there in person.
Or you could sign up for other papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) apps as well.
Those are probably your best options. Good luck!
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When I ask the staff about women who haven’t received any offers yet, I sometimes ask how many favorites they have.
My impression is that the number of offers is usually around 10% of the number of favorites.
So if she had a few dozen favorites, getting only two offers may have just been a bit unlucky—but unfortunately, that’s about what you can expect.
I wouldn’t really recommend the “try enough times and something is bound to hit” strategy.
The biggest reason things didn’t work out was probably that you couldn’t turn those two offers into ongoing arrangements.
Could it be that the allowance you were requesting was too high?
On PATOLO, you can enter your desired allowance. It might be worth writing a slightly more modest amount.
Good luck.
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There are plenty of young, attractive women registered with dating clubs.
What may be missing is something that makes you stand out—something exceptional that would make a man choose you from among all the others.
As an aside, on dating apps, male members receive so many messages from women that it can become annoying. I was inundated with messages that seemed like they hadn’t read my profile at all, so I initially made my profile private and eventually deleted my account.
I’ve kept my profile private on Patro from the beginning, so I’ve never received any messages there, but I imagine the same thing is happening.
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