We’ve both lost our feelings, but it seems like neither of us can bring ourselves to end things because we’re trying to be considerate of each other. I think it’s because we used to be very close.
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But the feelings are gone on both sides. He’s lost interest in me, and I have too.
He’s an extremely accomplished person socially, so part of me thinks I should take advantage of the opportunity and continue seeing him. Or should I just delete his contact and end things without suddenly telling him we’re breaking up?
Which do you think would be better?
It depends on the relationship.
If you’ve been seeing each other for a long time and understand each other well, you should talk it out. If not, you can just let things naturally fade away.
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I’m a former member, and I’ve been seeing the same woman in an allowance-based relationship for seven years. Since we didn’t fall head over heels for each other from the beginning, our feelings still haven’t cooled off even now, haha.
We only meet twice a month, but we both look forward to it and head to our date spot, haha.
Maybe you’ve finally reached the point where you can both be yourselves around each other, haha. You should think of this as the real beginning of your relationship as a man and woman.
Unless marriage, looking for a spouse, or something else brings a major change to your lifestyle, I think you’ll find yourselves entering a new stage together.
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When you two were really close, what was it that you saw in your papa (a male supporter)?
I wonder what made your feelings cool… It made me feel kind of sad (sorry).
A papa’s social status is something he has built up over the years, so of course it deserves respect.
But I feel like that isn’t what your papa wants you to acknowledge.
Even if he lost his honor, status, and wealth, maybe a relationship can continue because you still feel that he has always cared about you…
It’s not just about the allowance, right?
It’s complicated.
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If you’re going to break up anyway, why not tell them what’s really on your mind one last time? You can decide what to do after that.
If you don’t feel like talking, then just break up.
“Having cooled off” is incredibly vague. It seems rather presumptuous to think you understand the situation based on such vague wording and then start talking about breaking up or not.
You’d be better off thinking carefully about what makes you feel you’ve cooled off. It would give your life more depth and help you cooperate with others.
Vague words and vague thinking can only lead to vague results.
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