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Jul 10, 2024 09:44
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Even if we exchange contact information at the time, I’m a little worried that she might get angry if I block her afterward and leave me a bad review with the club.
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Age: 50s
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You may also get blocked by women.
If you’re not planning to make another date, don’t leave some weird parting remark or say anything unnecessary.
Otherwise, things naturally fizzle out here pretty often, so I think you’ll be fine.
Even if you feel you’re not physically compatible while you’re together, handling it like a gentleman should keep you from being resented or receiving bad feedback.
It’s a club for gentlemen, not a shop, lol.
Age: 60s
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Blocking someone you’ve been seeing for several months out of the blue would be rude, but if it’s only been once or twice, I sometimes do it because I can’t be bothered to explain why I’m turning them down.
Women often respond to me the same way.
If I feel like something isn’t quite right, they probably feel the same, so the outcome likely wouldn’t change anyway.
Also, since this is basically about money, I don’t think it’s the same as using someone and disappearing as long as I’ve paid the agreed amount.
Age: Private
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You say “women” as if they’re all the same, but they’re people, so everyone thinks differently.
Do you block someone just because you feel they’re not quite what you’re looking for? If you block someone over something that minor, they may well feel confused or even annoyed.
Wouldn’t it be better to approach papa-katsu with a little more consideration for others?
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It’s fairly common for an adult relationship (intimate) to end because the two of you aren’t compatible.
Even if you don’t plan to meet again, there’s no particular need to block them. In many cases, things naturally fade out as you contact each other less often. Personally, I don’t recommend blocking someone, since it’s a clear rejection.
Also, what do you mean by “the club’s side”? Female members aren’t employed by the club.
Reading this, I suspect there may be other issues involved, which could be why you received negative feedback.
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Age: 60s
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At 40, I should be free of doubts.
I’m sure there are plenty of other things you should be worrying about.