I had coffee with an older gentleman I met through an app.
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He said we’d first see whether we were compatible, and if we hit it off, he’d pay 50,000 yen each time after that. So basically, there’d be no money involved the first time—we’d have sex as a trial run.
Do you think he has no intention of meeting me a second time, and is just saying this so he can sleep with me once, then disappear by claiming we weren’t compatible?
It’s risky. Make sure you receive the allowance you want, even on the first meeting. And always insist on being paid upfront.
If you agree to payment afterward, there’s a good chance he’ll bring up what you originally discussed and you won’t end up receiving the allowance.
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Yes, that’s highly likely, so even for a trial meeting, tell him you’re looking for at least ¥50,000—or whatever amount you want.
Unlike an exclusive dating club, on an app you’re on your own, and no one will be there to support you, so do your best.
If you get tired of using apps, come see us at Universe or Patro. We’ll be waiting.
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