I’m a Yokohama member. This time, I received an offer from a Kobe member, and at the same time, another offer from a Hiroshima member. I’m planning to go on an overnight date in Kobe, then head to Hiroshima for a date the following day.
• I’m usually given round-trip transportation costs. Would it be okay to charge twice for the Shinkansen fare between Yokohama and Kobe?
• It’s greedy of me, but they wouldn’t know if I didn’t tell them, right?
• For those who have had an overnight date in another region, what’s the minimum allowance you usually ask for per night?
• Do you normally add a special allowance for traveling to another region on top of your usual allowance?
• Is it an unspoken rule that an overnight date includes adult time once at night and once in the morning?
• Do you put on makeup before having adult time in the morning?
• Do you also spend time with them the day after an overnight date? If so, do you usually part ways in the morning?
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Make sure the double charge for the Shinkansen doesn’t get found out. If it does, you might not get another date. Still, it’s kind of a miracle that you managed to arrange appointments on consecutive days so smoothly lol
As for staying overnight and a special allowance for the distance, doesn’t it depend on the person and what you negotiate?
You should probably be prepared for the number of times, since you’re receiving an extra allowance. With Fuu, I think it would be even more… lol
In the morning, at least do a basic makeup look and cover any dullness. Then maybe act like you’re not wearing makeup?
You could probably keep the morning free and spend some time together—at least enough to make up for the extra allowance.
Basically, go along with the papa’s expectations. If you want to keep things going, meet his requests; if not, feel free to turn him down without forcing yourself lol
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“Travel expenses”? Are you confusing this with sex work?
Also, an overnight stay isn’t something that should be included in a first offer.
If a woman is coming from far away, the man should pay her actual transportation costs… though that’s not guaranteed. Be sure to show the receipts for the transportation expenses incurred getting to the location.
Any meals and accommodation after you part ways with the man are your own responsibility.
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I don’t know whether that’s okay. In my experience, women have shown me receipts and such.
Personally, I wouldn’t want to stay overnight with a woman I’d just met, and I don’t know about the next-day date. But I don’t think staying overnight automatically means once at night and once in the morning, nor do I think it’s decided whether she should put on makeup first. I do think a woman who shows up bare-faced in front of a man she’s meeting for the first time is a bit unusual.
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