It’s been a month since I joined this site, and I’m grateful to have received so many offers. That said, I’m still not comfortable being intimate with men in their 50s and older.
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I’m sorry to say this, but deep kissing and oral sex make me feel nauseous. I chose this for myself, and I want to do my best to continue.
So I have a question: Are there any ways you make things more bearable during the time together? For example, no kissing, using a condom for oral sex, closing your eyes so you don’t have to look at him, and so on. I’d also appreciate advice on how to deal with someone who has bad breath even after brushing their teeth.
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I see… that’s a tough situation.
If he genuinely makes you feel sick, I think it would be best to end things. But if you can’t bring yourself to break up because of the money, here are some practical solutions:
Before taking a bath, have him take a Clorets breath-freshening tablet with you.
Take a bath together, have him gargle with Isodine, and then use mouthwash. You could also wash each other’s private areas in the bath.
During the intimate part, breathe only through your mouth. For example, if you have hay fever, meet when your nose is blocked because you deliberately haven’t taken your medication.
It would be nice if you could build a relationship where you can communicate things like that tactfully, without hurting the other person. A relationship can’t continue if only one person keeps putting up with everything.
One of my monthly partners suddenly started having an odor down there, so I told her to buy and use a vaginal cleansing product, and increased her allowance to cover it. She did it, and the odor went away.
I hope you can find a way to say something similar to your papa…
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- She faces away and keeps her eyes closed during intimacy.
- When I try to French-kiss her, she blocks me with her teeth, so my tongue can’t reach hers.
- She cuts oral sex short much sooner than expected.
I’m speaking from a man’s perspective, but I’ve experienced this kind of thing quite a bit. My tongue just can’t get past the ironclad wall of her teeth to reach hers.
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I’m Alchemist, a male member.
It sounds like you’re having trouble with your papa’s bad breath. In terms of sheer power, would it be something like Gundam’s mega particle cannon?
Bad breath can occur at any age or in any gender when oral hygiene isn’t properly maintained. Generally speaking, though, older people tend to be less attentive to their oral health.
If the bad breath remains strong even after brushing, possible causes include periodontal disease, cavities, tongue coating, dry mouth, or internal health issues. In such cases, self-care alone won’t be enough, and professional treatment may be necessary.
I know it’s difficult to bring up, but there’s only so much you can do through little hints, so I think you should gently point it out. If your papa gets offended, perhaps it’s best to end things. But if he shows a willingness to improve, you could consider continuing the arrangement.
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I’ve hardly had anything else to add lately.
Since women can choose their partners in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I don’t think there’s any need to force yourself.
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There was a segment on Kazlaser’s show saying that young women’s breath can smell worse than older men’s.
A relationship with someone you can’t get comfortable with isn’t really a relationship, so you don’t need to continue it. As Kaz says, whether you keep doing it as a job is up to you.
Also, since you’re not a professional, you don’t need to do condom blowjobs or push yourself. If kissing is off the table too, it’ll feel even more like a professional arrangement.
Ideally, you should only date people you actually want to cuddle with and kiss.
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