As I get older, I feel like my standards for the men I’m looking for keep getting higher.
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How do you all feel about this?
I’ve been making an effort to attend things like social gatherings, but maybe because my standards have gotten so high, I haven’t been able to find a boyfriend.
A few years ago, I feel like I used to date more instinctively.
I’m in my late twenties, nearly 30.
After supporting Miu-chan from the column in her quest to get married, I did some research into the marriage-hunting scene, so this is something I hear all the time: apparently, once you’re over 30, it gets harder and harder to get married.
As someone who’s divorced and thoroughly fed up with marriage, I can only think, “You’re better off avoiding it altogether.” Marriage was hell for me. It’s more fun to focus on your career and live freely on your own than to marry someone who’s only so-so. I couldn’t care less about the declining birth rate.
Once I helped Miu-chan with her marriage-agency membership fee, she got married in no time. She’s 24.
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It probably depends on the person, but once you’re over 30, the demand changes, so your perspective might change a little too.
Maybe you’ll decide to work hard yourself and be fine with men being just casual partners or kept men, lol.
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While I believe people should live however they want because it’s their life, I’d be put off if someone in their late twenties or early thirties were dating purely on instinct.
Personally, I feel that saying things like “I’ve fallen for them” without thinking things through is something you grow out of around high school age.
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