Why are there so many men who don’t post a profile photo on Universe but do post one on PATOLO? What’s the reason for using the two platforms differently?

By your logic, if more papas started posting photos on Universe, wouldn’t that just mean more unappealing papas and make you lose interest in papa-katsu? Since photos from the papa’s side are usually selfies, and men in that age group aren’t exactly great at taking pictures, wouldn’t most of them end up looking worse in photos than they do in person? lol To begin with, is it really true that many people who are Universe members and also use Patro only post their photos on Patro? Isn’t that just your impression? Maybe the papa you happened to like simply had no photo listed on Universe and had one posted on Patro. I think papas who hold high positions at work and therefore don’t post photos probably don’t post them on either site... I don’t have mine posted on either one, either. I’ve set them so they can only be viewed when I make an offer.

I don’t know what the man’s intentions are, but wouldn’t it be enough to check PATOLO first before sending “That sounds wonderful”?