I’m envious of the girls on social media who receive lots of gifts from their papa (male supporters).
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I’ve never received anything from mine before, but my birthday is coming up, so I’m thinking of asking him for a birthday present… I’m worried he’ll say, “I already give you an allowance, so buy it yourself.”
Also, if he gave me something worth a million yen, I don’t think I could return the favor by giving him something worth a million yen for his birthday.
What kind of return gifts do you give? What would make you happy to receive in return? Is it annoying to ask for gifts?
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Asking for things is annoying lol.
You don’t need to give me anything in return.
I don’t prepare gifts, but I’ll celebrate at a restaurant that has a birthday event…
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It feels like papas tend to fall into two categories: those who give women gifts and those who don’t.
No matter how wealthy they are, some men simply don’t give gifts.
Also, please keep in mind that retired papas and salaried employees may not have much disposable income, so their allowance may be all they can manage.
On the other hand, if he’s a business owner, a private-practice doctor, or an investor, the chances are a little higher. Still, an expensive gift worth over ¥1 million right from the start is unrealistic. If you haven’t known each other long, it’s best to expect no more than around ¥500,000 at most.
And even these kinds of men don’t give expensive gifts to just anyone. Unless you have some appeal beyond sex, they won’t feel inclined to buy you presents.
Of course, a girl can be wonderful based on her sexual appeal alone, but I think that getting a little closer to your papa emotionally can make even an expensive gift a real possibility.
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Why not try asking for it once, just for the experience?
If you don’t, you may end up thinking, “I wish I had,” for a long time. After all, your birthday only comes around once a year.
I think the mindset of trying what you want to do is important in everything.
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Asking for expensive gifts is a real turnoff. Especially when there’s no real relationship, no effort on their part, and they won’t even walk beside you in public—if they still ask for something expensive, I won’t see them again.
What’s the point of bragging about getting expensive gifts? Are they trying to sell some kind of information product on how to become like the poster? Or are they simply trying to one-up people? If it’s just posturing, it might even be a lie.
Personally, I’d be scared to accept something worth over a million yen from someone I barely know. I’d worry they might be involved with the yakuza or something, or that they’d hold the gift over me and demand something in return. It’s just too frightening.
Please be careful not to use sweet words and accidentally turn someone into a stalker, or deceive someone and end up facing physical retaliation—and paying a heavy price.
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Some men actually feel happy when they’re asked for things.
When it comes to gifts, it’s not about the price. You’re more likely to make someone happy by giving them something you chose and prepared with them specifically in mind.
That said, some people are happier with expensive gifts.
Rather than lumping everyone together, I think it’s best to read the person and adjust accordingly.
It’s me
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“Onedari” is written as お強請り in kanji, meaning asking or begging for things. Personally, I find it annoying.
This happened at another club, but when I contacted them about making an offer, I was told, “We’ve received a lot of feedback that this woman’s constant asking is irritating.”
You should understand that men can give this kind of feedback to the club, and the club may then share it with other men.
I don’t think gifts are something you should beg for. Personally, when I give someone a gift, I don’t expect anything in return—but when I receive one, I do think about giving something back.
First of all, I recommend moving past this rather naive habit of idealizing something based on an extremely tiny slice of someone else’s life that you happened to read about on social media.
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