If the monthly allowance is 75,000 yen for three meetings a month, is the payment made at the first meeting?

Are you talking about street solicitation, aiseki bars, or X papa-katsu? Maybe compensated dating? Since the question is from a man in his 20s, I assume you’re referring to that scene. That amount would be pretty tough to get in a dating club. If you’re dealing with that crowd, they might run off if you pay upfront, so why not make it pay-per-meeting at 25,000 yen?

It’s your first time. Especially in the beginning, it’s best to play it safe. With dating clubs, playing it safe is usually the right move.

It depends on the person. Parking fees are paid the month before, but personally, if it were an allowance, I’d give it when we first meet that month. I think it’s nonsense for other people to weigh in on how much the allowance should be. By the way, last time you were a teenage girl, and this time you’re a man in his twenties. Are you enjoying messing with people?

I’m “Poor Man’s Paper Airplane,” and I only enter long-term relationships without negotiating an allowance when it’s with a girl I’m especially fond of… But even so, what’s the point of dating someone you feel is worth only around 75,000 yen a month? What’s enjoyable about being in a relationship where you have to think about when to pay and how much allowance to give? I honestly don’t get it. Wouldn’t it be enough to anticipate what she wants and take care of it before she even asks…? I think that’s what being a papa (a male supporter) is about: finding out what she wants, being considerate and creative, and feeling happy yourself when she’s pleased. Whenever you feel like giving her something, just give her as much as you genuinely want to give and let her know how you feel… What is it that you want to convey to her? Maybe you should spend more time thinking about what would make her happy… And if this is supposed to be a model question, I’d like to see more realistic figures and a little more useful detail. It’s not tempting enough to bite…