I’m a member with Relationship Type C, and I’ve contracted syphilis.

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I’d like advice on whether I should be honest with my regular papa (a male supporter) and tell him. We have an adult relationship (intimate) with condoms. Recently, a new offer pressured me into having unprotected sex, and regrettably, I gave in. I later had a partner check, which came back negative, and since I had no symptoms, I had adult relationships (intimate) with several people, including my regular papa. He has a wife, so I’m worried about him and the possibility of passing it on to his family. He’s also very jealous, and I’m worried that our relationship will end because I caused this situation. At the moment, he doesn’t seem to have any obvious symptoms, but we have a date tomorrow. In this situation, would you tell your regular papa, or continue pretending nothing happened? I’d really appreciate answers from female members.

Answer 1

Please tell your papa (a male supporter) as soon as possible, before you infect his family. Once you contract syphilis, you must take medication for at least one month. You must also abstain from sexual activity for a month—don’t even kiss. Because there’s an incubation period, you won’t notice it right away. When someone with syphilis is hospitalized, the hospital sterilizes and disinfects everything from towels and personal items to the bed. People are taking syphilis far too lightly. Since you also have syphilis, please don’t share a bathtub with your family. Tell your papa right away and apologize.

Answer 2

I’m a male member, but I don’t think gender matters here, so I’ll answer. The only thing you can do is report it. Also, it seems that wearing a condom doesn’t necessarily prevent syphilis. There’s also a window period during which an infection may not show up on a test.

Answer 3

First, cancel the date saying you’re feeling unwell. Then, let some time pass as though your illness is lingering, and once you’re better—or fully recovered—just casually reappear. Personally, I think that should be fine.

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