Every man I meet compliments me on my looks, figure, and overall vibe…
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But I’ve always thought I wasn’t cute. In fact, a friend I consider genuinely cute has been scouted while walking around town and has even been asked to model for hair salon cuts. So I really do think she’s cute. I’ve never had anything like that happen to me.
She’s beautiful, so I’ve also seen many of the men she meets compliment her. That makes sense to me—because she’s beautiful!
I’ve heard that men compliment women as a matter of course because no one feels bad about being complimented. So if I met ten men and one or two complimented me, I’d assume they were just being polite.
But am I simply meeting men who are especially likely to flatter me?
You may be thinking, “What kind of question is that?” but I’m genuinely asking.
Being complimented doesn’t mean you’re extremely unattractive with absolutely nothing worth praising, so don’t dwell on it too much. You don’t need to worry.
For a woman to enjoy being intimate, a man verbally complimenting her to help make things pleasurable can be seen as part of foreplay. It’s also just the natural thing for a gentleman to do, right?
Whether the compliments are sincere or just flattery, take them lightly and simply feel happy that you were complimented.
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> My friend was scouted
Only a handful of street scouts are legit.
A lot of them are just looking to exploit people. That’s the reality.
> Hair model
It means being a practice model for a junior hairstylist who’s trying to improve their skills.
I don’t think either of these has anything to do with being cute, though...
> Men compliment women anyway
They only compliment women who actually deserve it.
Flattery is just a hassle.
> I met 10 men, and only one or two of them complimented me
Just wag your tail and be happy about it!
Most people find it cute when
a dog they’ve petted happily wags its tail, or
a cat they’ve petted purrs and rubs against them.
That’s me.
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Because it feels good to be complimented, right?
I don’t flatter people about their looks—or rather, I can’t—but I think more than half of women are worth complimenting, including when it comes to their appearance.
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You mention meeting men, but what kind of encounter are you referring to?
When someone approaches a woman they don’t know on the street, the only obvious opening they have is usually her appearance, so they’ll compliment her looks.
If you mean you’re being complimented on your appearance while at work, that sounds like a rather unusual workplace environment.
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I think this is something you should ask a Buddhist temple priest about.
You can’t honestly be happy even when someone compliments your looks, can you? The more beautiful a woman is, the more likely she is to be that type.
What matters isn’t how the other person sees you, but how you feel about them.
You should shift that focus away from other people and toward yourself as soon as possible.
Besides, there are a lot of risks when the other person is the one showing interest first. You take far fewer risks when you’re the one who likes them first.
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