We initially met on a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) site, but he’s such a wonderful, kind man that I ended up falling for him. We’ve been seeing each other without an allowance.

We’ve only been together for about two months, and we haven’t become intimate yet. We talk on the phone every night, and I message him on LINE around lunchtime; he replies when he gets a break from work. We see each other almost every weekend. He seems to be extremely busy with work, but on days when he has time, our LINE conversations can go on for quite a while. That had been our routine, but yesterday he didn’t message me to say he’d left work, and he sounded down when we talked on the phone. Today, he hasn’t even read the message I sent him. I’m starting to feel anxious. I’m worried that maybe he’s lost interest in me or that messaging me has become a hassle. Or perhaps he’s met someone better. I can’t see him this weekend because of work, but we’re also planning our first trip together soon. I thought we might become intimate for the first time then, so this is making me even more worried… Has he started to dislike me? Is there no chance anymore?