Tips Apr 17, 2024 18:02

I’ve heard that elderly people driving can be dangerous, but up to what age do you think it’s safe for them to drive?

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The dinner-only papa I recently met is in his early 60s, but I feel really uneasy when he drives. He swerves, changes lanes without signaling, drives painfully slowly, and then goes absurdly fast on the highway. Yet he says he has a gold license. I honestly can’t believe he’s made it this far without causing an accident. It’s hard to tell him I don’t want to ride with him because he’s a bad driver, so I’m not sure how to handle this. Really, everything would be solved if he would just give up driving...
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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Why not have the person asking the question drive while you’re together? If that’s not possible, you should end things. Sooner or later, there’ll be an accident and they won’t be able to make it home.
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日月新
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。 最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。 スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s important not to get into a car with someone who drives recklessly. If you’re injured in an accident, you’ll regret it. Even if the injury is minor, you’ll have to report it to the police and exchange real names you otherwise wouldn’t need to know, which can become a real hassle. In the worst-case scenario, your family would be left carrying the incomprehensible burden of having lost you while you were doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Why not just take a taxi and make sure to wear your seat belt?
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
That’s scary. There are people in their 70s who drive perfectly well, so someone in their 60s driving like that makes me fear for your life. I recommend making up a reason, such as getting carsick, and stopping the car dates.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I think it depends on the person. The easiest solution is to stop seeing them. Wanting to change something about the person you’re dating—or make them change—feels a bit greedy to me.
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