The person I’m interested in has had extensive plastic surgery.

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I think they’re highly capable and a genuinely good person, but I realized they’ve had work done. It wasn’t just a minor procedure—they’ve had quite a lot done, and they look nothing like they originally did. Should I avoid bringing it up, or ask about it indirectly? (They’ve told me they like my appearance.) Do you think they would prefer not to be asked about it? I’m honestly confused because their original face looked perfectly ordinary, so I don’t understand why they chose to have so much work done.

Answer 1

If you’re interested in her, it shouldn’t matter whether she’s had cosmetic surgery or not. After all, you’re clearly still interested even knowing she’s had work done. The main question is whether she’d be hurt by you finding out, or whether she’d be happy that you accept her post-surgery appearance. So one option might be to cautiously bring up the subject and see how she reacts.

Answer 2

Not having plastic surgery doesn’t necessarily mean someone is a good person. Even someone as beautiful as Park Min-young may get work done to become even more beautiful, and sometimes things can go wrong, like with BoA. But if the result is an improvement, isn’t that good enough? If the person asking has feelings for her and doesn’t want to be disliked, I think it would be better not to bring up her plastic surgery unless she mentions it herself. It is scary, though, since cosmetic surgery can go wrong.

Answer 3

I think it’s best not to ask until she brings it up herself.

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