Women can send a “You seem wonderful” to a man’s profile, but once I found out that I was in the Black class, I started wondering whether it was okay to send them to men who aren’t shown as Black as well. Realistically, though, I imagine there aren’t that many men who move up from Platinum to Black, so I find myself hesitating to send one.
There probably isn’t a huge difference in allowance between Gold and Platinum, but is it relatively uncommon for someone to move up from Platinum to Black?
I also have another question: what do men who hide their class when displaying their profile actually feel? Do they simply want to receive “You seem wonderful” messages from lots of women?
I feel like there’s no real reason for someone in the Black class to hide it, so I assume men who hide their class are probably Platinum or below. And then I hesitate to send them a “You seem wonderful” too, haha.
I’m not the type to just go through profiles one after another, so I’d rather read each profile carefully before sending one. But that tends to make me overly hesitant. (u_u)
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In my case, I keep my profile public but my membership tier private.
For reference, I joined as a Platinum member and upgraded to Black after about a month.
I initially joined as Platinum, thinking I’d upgrade if I found someone I wanted to make an offer to as a Black member. As it turned out, I did find someone, so I upgraded.
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If a male member who isn’t in the Black Class genuinely wanted to meet the questioner, wouldn’t he upgrade his membership?
I’m not convinced the questioner has enough appeal to make someone truly want to meet her. Perhaps the reason he makes excuses and doesn’t click “You seem lovely” is that she hasn’t been sending messages that create that impression.
People who are truly wealthy don’t announce that they’re wealthy. Even if they made their Black membership public, wouldn’t they keep it private if all they got in return was women asking them for money?
Some men do wear recognizable designer clothes or carry designer bags, but the first people who come to mind are those collecting money under the pretense of crypto or investments, self-proclaimed successful network marketers, or spoiled heirs whose predecessors were influential.
Since there are plenty of women with the same mindset as the questioner, perhaps even Black members keep their status private. lol
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Moving from Platinum to Black is actually fairly common, so I don’t think it’s particularly rare.
Men may initially want to keep their class, income, and occupation private because, even in a club setting, they feel some resistance to entering a relationship based on those terms.
Rather than wanting attention from lots of women, I think they may actually feel that keeping those details hidden will reduce the number of women interested—and that’s perfectly fine with them.
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I only make my profile visible to women I’ve sent an offer to, and I keep my class private.
The reason I only show it to women I’ve approached is that I’m not the type to go after people indiscriminately, and getting “You seem great” messages from women I’m not interested in is a hassle.
Besides, I can’t really imagine a woman who’s well-off sending out “You seem great” messages one by one like that.
I keep my class private because women who make a big deal about someone’s class are a hassle.
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