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Apr 2, 2024 13:33
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I’m new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and recently, a papa I met asked me for my real name. I didn’t know how to respond and felt confused.
I ended up telling him in the moment, but now I’m worried about whether that was really okay.
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Generally, sharing your real name tends to build more intimacy and lead to a higher allowance, but it doesn’t necessarily mean your allowance will always increase. Still, I do feel there’s a kind of unspoken rule that if you don’t share it, you probably shouldn’t expect a generous allowance.
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Be careful not to reveal your personal information.
There’s a chance they could become a stalker when you try to end things, or threaten you using your personal details.
Just give them your name, and don’t tell them your address, company name, or school.
Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is a solo endeavor, so no one will protect you. Protect yourself.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/search?word=%E6%9C%AC%E5%90%8D
If you search there, you’ll find a ton of Q&As.
I don’t know how many times I’ve said this, but I never go out of my way to ask for the other person’s real name. Even so, if the relationship continues for a while, the woman may tell me herself, or I’ll naturally get the chance to find out. That’s how I know the real names of all my partners.
While I’m at it, I also know my partners’ addresses and workplaces, and I’ve visited the homes of almost all of them.
I think you’ll find out in time whether it was a good idea to give that man your real name. No one can know that at this point.
Even if you feel anxious or keep worrying about it, you’ve already told him, and you can’t undo that. So you probably realize there’s no point in dwelling on it.