We’re both seeing multiple people, but I’ve started developing romantic feelings for one person, and dates with my other partners don’t feel as enjoyable anymore.
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With this kind of arrangement, is it better to keep those feelings to myself if I want things to work out?
Also, when you start developing romantic feelings for someone you’re seeing, it’s natural to feel a little jealous. I think it’s best to keep those feelings in check and continue as usual, since people tend to find romance bothersome in this kind of relationship.
I’d appreciate your thoughts.
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Maintaining the same level of distance you had at the beginning is the key to keeping the relationship going for a long time.
If you started out with the understanding that seeing multiple people was okay, you’ve accepted that it’s a transactional relationship to some extent, so it can feel bothersome when the other person develops romantic feelings for you.
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As Seattle says, it’s impossible to answer without knowing your gender and age, since the response would be very different for a man versus a woman.
Even if you’re a woman—or a man—turning papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) into a serious romantic relationship depends on what kind of arrangement the other person is looking for.
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Since you haven’t said whether you’re a woman or a man, it’s hard to answer.
Assuming you’re a woman, I personally can’t keep seeing someone for more than a year if I don’t have romantic feelings for him.
I don’t want to get married, but if he were someone I liked enough to consider marrying, I’d be willing to support him for as many years as necessary.
If your papa (a male supporter) is single, I don’t think you should hide it.
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What are you hoping to gain by asking complete strangers about something that obviously depends on the circumstances?
My advice is: “Why not take a moment to calm down first?”
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