I want to be more attractive.

Even though she’s cute and feminine, could there really be something seriously off if she can’t get any attention? I think the natural, girl-next-door type is relatively popular here, so why not come in for an interview and register first?

I don’t think being in a compensated relationship means you’re popular. And having a partner doesn’t necessarily mean you’re popular either. Being liked by one particular person isn’t really what you’d call being popular. If a plain-looking girl wants to be popular, joining an otaku club or somewhere with lots of men and very few women is probably the easiest way. If she hints at her sexuality a little, men will usually flock to her, and she’ll feel popular.

It may be a little presumptuous for me to answer since I’m not exactly popular, but… In your case, might the issue be how you meet people or getting the opportunity to connect with someone? As the other respondents have said, I feel like things might change if you put yourself in an environment with more men.

Some women in dating clubs want to receive lots of offers, but I think finding one offer that’s right for you is more important than getting a large number of offers. Even in romantic relationships, wanting to be attractive and popular with lots of men simply because you look good feels rather immature—almost like something out of middle-school fantasy. As an adult, it’s honestly a little sad. Wouldn’t it make you happier to be liked by someone you genuinely like, rather than by a bunch of men you don’t really care about? Also, being popular tends to happen when you’re surrounded by lots of people around your age. That’s why people are generally most popular while they’re students or just starting out in the working world. In the questioner’s case, being a part-time worker seems to be one reason they have few opportunities to meet decent people, so I’d recommend first considering getting a job at a reasonably sized company. By the way, many of the men registered with dating clubs understand that attractive women date them because they pay an allowance. In other words, they don’t particularly think of themselves as popular. Occasionally, some delusional men ask for a relationship without an allowance, despite having met through a dating club, and end up receiving negative feedback.

I think the best option is to get a part-time job somewhere with lots of men. If you’re thinking about marriage, places near universities are a good bet.