I’m moving on to an adult relationship (intimate) for the first time today. Should I bring condoms myself? My papa and I haven’t discussed them, and I absolutely don’t want to do it without one.
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If we haven’t talked about it beforehand, do men generally assume that going without a condom is okay?
If nothing is said, condoms are assumed. As Flagmaker said, you should bring four different types just in case.
Going without a condom requires an STD test and an additional fee.
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Generally speaking, many men prefer to go without a condom, while many women want their partner to use one.
So, for your own safety, it’s best for women to have condoms with them.
Also, if a man goes to a city hotel without bringing condoms, he’ll probably eventually ask to go without one.
So unless you’d be okay with having unprotected sex with him, I think it’s best to part ways after the first meeting.
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Kazu is right.
Start by taking out the medium size.
Then the man will say, “Sorry, I need a large.” When he does, say:
“I thought you might, so I brought a large too!”
Then watch his expression closely.
Likewise, if he says, “I can’t use latex,” reply, “I thought you might, so I brought polyurethane ones too!” and watch his expression closely.
You’ll probably get a priceless look.
So technically, you need at least four types, but I think the expressions you’ll get will more than make up for it. Sounds fun.
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I think it depends on what you want to do.
The question is whether you want to be intimate with a man who shows up without bringing condoms and doesn’t seem willing to use one—and whether you’re prepared to coax or persuade him into putting one on.
Personally, unless you’ve agreed otherwise beforehand, I think condoms should be used.
By the way, did you know that condoms come in different sizes, thicknesses, and materials? If you’re the one providing them, I recommend keeping a variety on hand.
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I always keep one in the back that’s the right size, but I think it depends on the person you’re meeting. If you’re worried, bring one along just in case.
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If you’re concerned, it’s better to bring your own.
I’ve also given one to someone before, even though I wasn’t sure whether he would use it.
Love hotels usually have them available, but city hotels don’t, so I kept one in my bag just in case.
If a man is put off by that, it’s probably fine to let him turn you down. Normally, men bring the kind they prefer themselves.
For your own protection, keep at least one with you.
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