An adult relationship (intimate) is something special to me. I only want to take that step when I want to show my papa (a male supporter) how grateful I am. Are women who feel this way uncommon?
I’m often asked to have an adult relationship from the second meeting onward, and I worry that the papa might leave if I don’t agree.
By “showing my gratitude,” I mean with a papa who has bought me daily necessities or taken me shopping, or one who has taken me out for nice meals several times.
Would papas still dislike it if we went out for dinner only (no intimacy) many times?
Thank you for your answers.
There may not be many, but there are people of both genders who see this kind of relationship as ideal.
I think that when a relationship naturally develops into an adult relationship (intimate) after meeting several times, the chances of having good sex increase considerably.
There’s a huge difference in how relaxed and naturally responsive a woman can feel when she enters an adult relationship after gaining a sense of security and trust, compared with doing so on the first or second date.
From the man’s perspective as well, if he finds a woman attractive enough to want to meet her repeatedly even for dinner only (no intimacy), he’ll probably treat her differently. That can lead to greater satisfaction for both of them and allow the relationship to develop in a positive way.
Just as there are women who share the questioner’s views, there are also men who feel the same way. When those two types meet, I think it can become a relationship with benefits for both sides.
Some women feel fed up when, after progressing to an adult relationship (intimate) once, the man expects it every time they meet. There may not be many, but some men prefer that arrangement too.
Personally, I find it very satisfying when the relationship progresses to an adult relationship (intimate) when the woman feels comfortable and ready, and afterward it happens only when she wants to—not every time they meet.
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I only offer C or less. Since I joined this club because I want an adult relationship, I don’t see the point if that isn’t possible. If the papas are looking for something different from what I am, they’ll probably move on.
Personally, there are women in their 20s and 30s who will happily join me for a nice meal or drinks if I invite them, without me having to pay an allowance. So, honestly, I don’t really see a reason to offer one.
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Personally, once I’ve had an adult relationship (intimate) with someone, I don’t assume it has to happen every time afterward.
What I dislike is going out for dinner several times only for things to end with a goodbye and nothing more than dinner.
So even if she’s a B1 type, if we’ve had dinner twice and there’s still no progress by the third time, I’ll start moving toward ending things.
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In my experience, women who think that way aren’t all that uncommon, but only a minority actually act on it.
If I knew in advance that she felt that way, it wouldn’t bother me. If I had someone else I could enjoy a fulfilling sex life with, felt comfortable waiting, and found her attractive enough to be worth waiting for, I would wait.
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