At the end of a first meeting with a man the other day, he asked me, “What are your thoughts on the allowance?”
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Since this is my first time doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and my dating type is B1, I told him I was thinking of an allowance of 10,000 yen for dinner.
When a man asks about the allowance like this, was I also supposed to bring up the allowance for an adult relationship (intimate)?
Also, how much is usually given for an adult relationship (intimate)?
Sorry for my lack of knowledge. I look forward to your answers.
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂20s👑Universe female member
I can’t answer that here. If you ask Google or another search engine, you’ll find several examples, and I think you can use their average as a guideline.
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Basically, a B1-type arrangement is generally understood to have an adult relationship (intimate) in mind.
So if you’re open to eventually developing an adult relationship (intimate) with that man, tell him so upfront.
In a sense, the allowance can also be viewed as compensation for putting up with someone.
That’s why women often adjust the amount depending on the man they’re dealing with.
You might be able to tolerate someone you dislike if he gives you an allowance of 10, while you might be fine with 3 if he’s your type.
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Whether you should or not is entirely up to you. If he wants to know the allowance for an adult relationship and you don’t bring it up, he’ll ask again.
There’s no fixed standard for how much the allowance usually is. Even among the amounts I’ve heard at Universe Club, pay-per-meeting arrangements can range widely from ¥0 to ¥100,000.
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