How long do you usually wait before telling someone your real name?
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The man I’m seeing told me, “I enjoy talking with you, and I really like your face, figure, and the way you think, so I’d like to see only you.” Tomorrow afternoon will be our fifth date, and we’ll be going to a love hotel for the first time. He’s been asking about my workplace and real name, but I’ve been avoiding answering by saying, “I’ll tell you eventually.”
Once we have an adult relationship (intimate), I feel I can trust him, and we decide to continue seeing each other, I plan to gradually share more personal information.
Also, when you take a shower, do you bring your handbag into the bathroom if it contains your smartphone, wallet, credit cards, and so on?
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Since my LINE account uses my real name, most women ask to be called by their real names from the very first day when we exchange contact information.
Women whose LINE display name was just a single initial kept using their club names.
I’ve never asked them myself, so unless a woman tells me, I wouldn’t know her real name.
As the relationship continues, opportunities to naturally learn her address often come up—for example, when she moves, travels, or receives gifts.
If she asks you directly, I think it’s fine to be vague about it. I don’t think men need to ask.
You can tell her when you feel comfortable, or wait until the opportunity arises naturally.
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Unless they’re the professional type, most people use their real names when exchanging LINE contact details, so you can usually figure it out at the first meeting. Though often it’s just their first name.
In my case, we take a bath together, so I just leave my bag as it is.
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I’ve always given my real name before meeting.
For the first meeting only, I leave my bag near the bathroom.
I don’t ask women for their real names—they usually tell me naturally when we’re going to a spa or taking a trip by plane.
If someone seems trustworthy, I think it’s fine to share your real name. People who keep everything secret aren’t much fun, so things usually don’t last.
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I don’t ask for their real names—I wait until they choose to tell me. Some mention them naturally in conversation on the second or third date, while others don’t tell me until a year has passed.
So there have been times when I didn’t know a woman’s real name but knew where she worked or even where she lived.
A few women introduced themselves and asked for my real name while we were having dinner on our first meeting.
Some women take their bags into the bathroom, while others don’t. Some do it the first time but stop from the second meeting onward, while others stop after several meetings rather than after the second.
In short, it varies from person to person. There’s no set method. That’s simply how human relationships and individual personalities are.
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