Tips Mar 9, 2024 23:03

I’m thinking about ending things with someone I’ve been seeing for about two years.

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If it had only been a few dates, I wouldn’t think twice about it. But after two years, I’ve grown attached, so I keep wondering how to bring it up. How do you all usually end things? Would it be best to give a harmless excuse, like saying his wife might find out, or something similarly non-confrontational?
👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 40s 👑 Universe male member
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
“I’m having some personal difficulties and can’t pay your allowance anymore. Would you still be willing to meet me as before without an allowance?” If she doesn’t reply or turns me down, is it best for me to just leave it at that?
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I don’t think you necessarily need to break things off. For now, maybe try waiting a week—or even a month—before replying…
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
What do you mean, “I might get caught”? lol A relationship where you’re already thinking about what lie to tell when you want to end things sounds pretty shallow, so I don’t think there’s any need to overthink it.
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
People say that when you cut something off, a clean, sharp cut heals faster. So I think it’s best to end things decisively and without hesitation. But honestly, even that may be presumptuous. In many cases, the woman may not think much of it at all, so I think any reason is fine. Any polite excuse should be safe enough.
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