After meeting a man at Universe Lounge and going out with him, he said he would walk me to the nearest station after dinner. Even after I declined, he kept following me the whole way.
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We had also agreed to meet again, but now I’m worried he may be dangerous and am considering canceling. Is it common for someone to keep following you like this?
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It may not be common in ordinary relationships, but when I hear funny stories from women doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I come across plenty of examples like that.
I hear similar stories about people meeting through dating apps, too.
Rather than being something specific to papa-katsu, I think it happens precisely because the people involved don’t have a very close relationship.
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That was just bad luck. Not all papas are like that, but there are all kinds of people in the world, so protect yourself.
For next time, I’d recommend declining and ending things. Wait for an offer from another papa who won’t follow you around.
In papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), women are also in a position to choose the men, so men who behave strangely will eventually be weeded out. Still, keep in mind that there are always a certain number of odd papas out there and proceed accordingly.
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If it happened frequently, they would probably issue a warning about it, so I don’t think it’s a common occurrence.
It would be a good idea to leave feedback with the lounge.
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