The woman I’m seeing is moving, and she’s asked me to cover the moving costs and the various upfront expenses for signing a new apartment lease.
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We’ve agreed that I don’t need to know where she lives, and that she doesn’t want me to know either. However, I would like to confirm that she actually moved.
For anyone with similar experience, do you know of any good way to do that?
Rather than handing her the money directly, I’m considering transferring it directly to the real estate agency or moving company myself.
Please spare me the comments like, “If you’re a man, you should pay that much without needing proof...”
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Why would you pay for someone’s moving expenses when you don’t even know their address?
Even with rent of around ¥60,000, the total cost at signing came to over ¥200,000 once everything was added in. And that was after cutting out anything unnecessary…
As for moving costs—even without a refrigerator or washing machine, it would still be at least ¥60,000.
Men, please don’t get fooled. Think carefully.
Aren’t you supposedly business owners?
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I’ve covered moving expenses before, but only for someone whose home I had visited.
If she doesn’t want to share her address, I think it would be reasonable to ask to see the receipt for the moving costs. In my experience, receipts don’t include the address.
Personally, I’m amazed that someone would ask a person they don’t even want to share their address with for such a substantial amount of money. People really do have very different tastes in women.
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You probably don’t need to transfer money to someone who doesn’t even know where you live. It sounds suspicious.
If she has that many rivals, you may just have to write off whatever you already gave her and let it go.
Cash handed over in person is still better than a bank transfer.
She’ll move in near your place and invite you over, even though you never asked her to.
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