Sometimes I’m asked whether I have any other papas (male supporters), and I’m honestly not sure whether I should tell the truth and say yes, or lie and say no.
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Men, what kind of answer would you prefer to hear? And women, how do you usually respond when you’re asked? I’d appreciate hearing your perspectives.
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It’s something I hear fairly often, but not a single woman has ever answered, “Yes, I do.”
When I asked, “How would you like to handle things going forward?” one woman said, “Probably around two. Having too many would be a hassle.” Honestly, that cooled me off a little.
A woman I’d been seeing for about a year once messaged me, “Sorry, I tested positive for an STD 😭.” I was fine, and since she said we didn’t need to worry about an allowance, we went on dinner dates, and started seeing each other again once she’d recovered. That didn’t cool me off. It was obvious she had someone else, though. Human emotions aren’t logical（笑）
Maybe it’s less about the facts and more a matter of courtesy or manners. She hesitates and softens it because she’s considerate of how the other person might feel if she said, “I have someone else.” Since you can sense that consideration, it feels heartwarming and you don’t lose interest.
After hearing that Kazu openly discusses seeing multiple people with everyone involved, I thought, “That does sound easier.” But even if I tried to do the same, I just can’t bring myself to say it in the moment. I’ve already gotten over my shyness, so that shouldn’t be the issue. I guess there must be some other factor.
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If you’re looking for a clear-cut answer on a Q&A board like this, the only answer would be: say there isn’t anyone else.
Men generally aren’t likely to get more excited knowing that there’s another man you’re involved with. They’ll probably be more enthusiastic if they believe there isn’t anyone else and that they have you all to themselves.
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You’re often asked, “Do you have any other papas?”
I tell them I don’t.
I think it’s better to make it seem like you’re at least a little interested in your papa, so he doesn’t lose enthusiasm. However, there are also people like Kazu, so in the end, you have to judge for yourself.
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I’d rather be told honestly if someone is there. I don’t like women who tell shallow lies, so if it seems like someone is there but she says there isn’t, I tend to distance myself.
If you want someone to tell you those kinds of shallow lies, hostesses are much better at it—probably because the relationship isn’t as deep.
What people want varies completely from person to person, so I recommend paying close attention to the other person and thinking for yourself about how to act in the moment.
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I think it really depends on the individual, but here are some questions where I can think of answers you’re probably better off lying about:
1. Do you have fun when you’re with me?
2. Is my dick’s “deviation score” high?
3. Do you ever really want to see me?
4. Am I better than your boyfriend?
5. Am I your No. 1 papa?
I’m not very imaginative, so I can’t think of many more. I’ll leave the rest to the other respondents.
Basically, I feel like you shouldn’t answer a papa’s questions honestly. You should make an effort—or at least try—to give him the answers he wants to hear. I think the key phrase is:
“Get his dick and his heart hard.”
Papas are surprisingly high-maintenance, aren’t they? I’m reflecting on that. Well, only pretending to.
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