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Feb 2, 2024 06:57
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Other
Sorry for the late reply. I’ve read all of your previous questions.
First of all, stop getting caught up in the drama on the same level as the woman. Isn’t she younger than you? She may be playing various games, but she’s also immature because she has less life experience. Shouldn’t you look at things from a higher perspective and be more forgiving?
From a compliance standpoint, going bare is criticized, but I believe it’s acceptable when there’s a relationship built on trust. That said, it’s proof that the woman trusts the man, while the man is simply enjoying himself. The man’s responsibility is to take responsibility for the consequences. Even in a situation like this, if it’s true, the first thing he should do is show that he’s prepared to take responsibility, and then carefully determine whether it’s really true.
If it turns out not to be true, the words you should say to her—not necessarily out loud, but at least in your heart—shouldn’t be, “So it wasn’t true. What was she talking about?” They should be, “That must have been difficult. You must have been worried.”
I’m personally fine with going bare, but if a man isn’t prepared to face the consequences, I think he should refrain. Sometimes you meet women who have a low threshold for it and suddenly suggest going bare, but if I don’t feel ready to take responsibility, I’ll turn them down.
Taro
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
No idea.
You were trying to make some demand based on the assumption that you were pregnant, but if you withdraw that assumption, wouldn’t that settle it?
If you’re going to panic over a demand like that, you should probably stop doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). You’re being way too careless.
Other
There are honestly so many people who don’t realize that even having unprotected sex just once can result in an STI or pregnancy.
A lot of people also think, “I’ll be fine” or “I’m fine.” It’s like those people during COVID who went maskless because they believed they were clean and therefore safe, only to get infected after touching their masks with hands that had touched all sorts of things.
If you touch your mask with dirty hands, you can get infected. It’s the same as people who think they’ll be fine if they have unprotected sex as long as they pull out.
Their ignorance is honestly enough to make me sigh.
I also get the impression that staff from other clubs may be spreading rumors that there are many men at Universe Club who don’t use condoms and that it’s dangerous…
There have been so many questions like this lately that I’m getting fed up, and it feels like the answerers are starting to drift away.
To the capable person in charge of this Q&A: please identify the individuals using their IP addresses and do something about these fraudulent questions.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
As someone who answers questions here, I have to ask: what exactly was the questioner trying to accomplish? I find it hard to believe that a grown adult over 40 would panic and ask something like that.
That aside, as Joe pointed out, relying on a pregnancy test alone seems rather inadequate.
Those of us hearing this secondhand from the questioner have even less idea what the woman actually wants. All I can say is what I wrote at the beginning.
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入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
The lesson here is: “A wise person stays away from danger.”
Not to meddle, but pregnancy tests apparently aren’t always accurate. For your own sake down the line, get retested at a gynecologist and ask for documentation confirming infertility.
Other
Why don’t you ask them directly?
You’re both grown adults, yet you prioritize pleasure, then panic and run to a place like this when things start going south.
It’s really not a good look.
Wasn’t it that you wanted to get extra money out of him?
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s understandable to feel anxious when your period doesn’t come, so you probably just jumped the gun and started imagining all sorts of scenarios in case you were pregnant.
Even when you’re taking the pill, it’s still a good idea for both of you to discuss and be prepared for what you’d do if you happened to become pregnant.