In recent questions, there have been discussions about compensation claims and sexually transmitted infections. Do we need to fully understand that if the man has a wife, she may demand compensation from us, and that we could contract an STI from him? If he is married, should we have around ¥3 million set aside in case we’re sued for compensation?
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I was happy to receive an offer, and after dinner, we entered into an adult relationship (intimate). I was looking forward to enjoying our time together, but I guess I also need to consider the risks of compensation claims and STIs.
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Compensation for adultery and infidelity is usually around ¥1–3 million. You’ll be held jointly responsible with the man involved. It can happen with adultery even if it isn’t papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
But getting back to the main point: if that’s a concern, why not look for a single papa?
As for STIs, if you’re having sex with multiple people, some level of risk is unavoidable.
You could reduce the number of people you have sex with as much as possible—for example, one partner and three papas—and choose papas who are less likely to visit sex-service establishments. You can’t reduce the risk to zero, but I think the way you go about things can lower the chances of contracting an STI.
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If you’re worried about the risks, it’s better not to do it in the first place.
There are risks wherever you go, and if you’ve already identified them, the only question is whether you’re willing to accept them. You already know the answer.
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Judging from your final sentence, this isn’t really a question—it’s a declaration of intent.
I’m not mocking you. However, leaving a mere young girl aside, I don’t think this is something a battle-hardened woman in her 40s should be doing.
My answer is: Get a grip!
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Where did the figure of three million yen come from?
I think it’s just someone changing their profile and posting things disguised as questions, like this one.
Of course, having an affair risks one of the spouses finding out, and having sex carries the risk of contracting an STI or becoming pregnant. But those risks aren’t unique to relationships involving an allowance, are they?
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