My monthly papa (a male supporter) tested positive for syphilis.
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He said I’m the only person he’s been seeing and asked me to get tested for STIs. My results came back negative.
I don’t feel good about being suspected of having an STI by my monthly papa. He wants to continue our relationship.
Would you end things in this situation?
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Your papa (a male supporter) was concerned about you when he told you, so it’s honestly scary to think that you might have had syphilis without realizing it if he hadn’t said anything.
Syphilis can become serious over time, so it needs to be treated as soon as it’s detected. I’m glad your test was negative.
I also got chlamydia recently. I used protection, so maybe it was from oral? I told the monthly partner I’d most recently seen right away. My partner tested negative too.
I wasn’t contacting him because I suspected anything. I just thought it would be awful if I didn’t tell him and he ended up getting it, so I reached out. Both people need to get treated, or you can keep reinfecting each other.
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Even if they have multiple partners, both men and women date them while saying, “You’re the only one.”
Were you seeing only one man who had syphilis?
If you have syphilis, you need to take medication every day for a month. After finishing the medication, you’ll be tested, and if the numbers have gone down, that’s good. If they haven’t, you’ll need to take the medication for another month.
So if you choose to continue seeing him, that means no adult relationship (intimate) for one to two months. Naturally, without an adult relationship, the allowance will also be reduced.
Now you understand what your options are.
Please also tell the staff when the man contracted syphilis, so they don’t make offers to other people and spread the infection.
Thank you.
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It may not be that she suspected you. She might be saying, “I’ve had an illness, and I’d like you to get tested in case I passed it on to you.”
Personally, I wouldn’t end things with someone just because they told me they’d had an illness. There have been several people who told me they’d been infected, while I hadn’t, but I never ended things over it.
That said, we’re open with each other about dating multiple people.
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My monthly-arrangement papa tested positive for syphilis.
He said he’d only been seeing me and asked me to get tested for STIs. My results came back negative.
At this point, it’s clear he lied about only seeing you. Personally, I’d say goodbye to someone who can casually tell such an easily exposed lie—not because I was suspected, but because of the lie itself.
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They said they only see me, so they asked me to get tested for STIs.
If you’re not involved with multiple partners, you’re very unlikely to contract an STI. In our case, we’ve been together for six years and have never had an infection.
I think it’s best to be with someone you can trust. Whether you pursue the relationship is ultimately your own responsibility...
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