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I’m starting to genuinely fall for a papa-katsu woman who’s over 20 years younger than me. I should probably end things, right?

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If the other person wants it too, I don’t see anything wrong with genuinely falling for them—as long as it stays within the respectful boundaries of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). That said, in that case, I don’t think you need to be the one constantly reaching out to arrange meetings. You’ll probably have plenty of frequent exchanges just by replying to their messages. Papa-katsu is about providing each other with what the other person wants, so if you give them plenty of what they’re looking for, you may well get the genuine feelings you want in return.
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If you’re starting to catch real feelings but haven’t acted on them yet, I’d suggest reaching out to several other women with similar profiles and spreading your feelings out a bit. You’ll just creep her out and end up being disliked, so be careful not to fall too hard. I’m trying to watch myself too, lol.
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Even if you’ve genuinely fallen for them, it might be fine to continue as long as you can maintain a respectful relationship with appropriate boundaries.
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If that’s what you think, then go ahead. Are you prepared to support this papa-katsu gal in her twenties for the rest of her life?
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