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We’ve been seeing each other for about a year. We know each other’s addresses, names, and so on, and we have complete trust in each other. Normally, even when I asked to go without protection, she refused, so we always used condoms. I was fine with that, but now she’s said that next time, going without protection is okay—as long as I don’t finish inside her—and I’m actually feeling confused.
She isn’t taking birth-control pills, and it will be three days after her period ends, which is considered a “safe” time. Still, I want to reduce the risk of pregnancy. Could you tell me how to avoid accidentally finishing inside her when things feel intense?
I tested negative for HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia a month ago, and I showed her the results. She only asked for a very small increase in her allowance.
I’m married.
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You were hoping to have unprotected sex, right?
It’s not often that a woman agrees to it, so even though this is a good thing, you’re suddenly feeling confused.
I’m sure everyone in the world would love to know if there were a way to accidentally avoid ejaculating inside. You could probably make a fortune if such a method existed.
A woman who agrees to unprotected sex is probably doing it with other men too, so I assume she understands that she’s constantly exposed to the risk of STIs. Still, at the very least, you should offer extra allowance and have her take the pill. Otherwise, the responsibility if she gets pregnant would be far too great...
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Why not explain that using a condom feels better for you—the climax itself and the lingering afterglow are more pleasurable that way?
I think there’s something especially comforting about enjoying that dazed afterglow together after you’ve both climaxed, remaining joined while wearing a condom. It can also be a moment when you feel a strong connection and emotional bond.
Why not work together to make it the kind of sex where you can both feel satisfied?
From what I gather, are they saying that condoms don’t work for them, so they want you to finish properly without one, even if it can’t be helped?
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Thinking you can have 100% trust with someone over 70—honestly, you must have flowers growing in your head.
You should really avoid having sex without protection. That woman might have an STI and could even be plotting to pass it on to you.
“Three days after your period ends is a safe day”? You’re being deceived.
You can get pregnant from the day your period starts, and you’re most likely to get pregnant three days after it ends. The moment he puts his penis in even once, pregnancy is possible—even if he doesn’t ejaculate.
And even one instance of penetration can transmit an STI.
Who told you that information? Was it some papa-katsu gal in her twenties, by any chance?
She may be planning to claim she’s pregnant and extort a lot of money from you. You should walk away.
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If the person asking this question is in their 70s, I feel terrible saying this, but I found myself thinking, “Come on, you should know better!”
There are so many things to point out, but the biggest one is the phrase “a 100% trusting relationship.” I may not be in a position to say this as a youngster, but my limited life experience tells me that 100% trust between people is extremely rare—or perhaps impossible.
The questioner cites their one-year relationship and the fact that they share personal information as evidence, but I nearly burst out laughing. This is a joke, right?
To put it mildly, if you really have a 100% trusting relationship, why not just ask her how she truly feels?
Problem solved. Congratulations.
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