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Jan 11, 2024 21:46
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It’s been about two months since I joined, and I’ve been seeing the people who have made me offers without any problems.
When I registered, I wasn’t familiar with the area and wasn’t sure whether there would be demand for someone in her mid-30s, so after giving it some thought, I chose Type C.
However, I’ve heard that many Type C women work in the nightlife industry, and I’m worried that people may assume the same about me.
I’ve never worked in the nightlife industry or done papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and I’m not completely comfortable with the idea of an adult relationship (intimate) developing from the very first date.
There are also people who continue to see me for dinner only (no intimacy), so I’m wondering if it would be okay to switch to B2. Would changing from Type C to B2 give people a bad impression?
Also, when someone is registered as Type C, do people assume she has experience working in the nightlife industry?
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
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I’d assume that a woman changing from C to B2 may have had an unpleasant experience on a date.
So I wouldn’t say the change necessarily reflects that badly on her, but changing her type in the first place does carry considerable risk.
I can’t deny that many C-type women have experience working in the nightlife industry, but that doesn’t mean all of them do.
Personally, I wouldn’t recommend taking that kind of risk based on speculation that she might be seen that way.
If you’re uncomfortable with things developing into an adult relationship on the first meeting, then you should change her type without worrying about how it might look.
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I think there are quite a few ordinary people among C-type members. If anything, D-type probably has fewer ordinary people.
You should choose your dating type based on how you genuinely feel—not on how many offers you receive or what the other person wants.
This is just my opinion, but I think it’s better to avoid changing your dating type too casually. That said, I don’t have such a negative impression of changing from C-type to B2-type. With either type, you can usually tell on the first day whether you click with someone.
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I think it’s best to make the decision based on your own feelings.
If you’re comfortable with an adult relationship from the very first date and haven’t had any problems so far, I don’t think you need to change your type.
Since a type change remains on your profile, it’s better to keep changes to a minimum. Also, if you’ve only recently joined, changing your type probably won’t give men a good impression.
Men also want to avoid mismatched expectations as much as possible, so if you’re comfortable having an adult relationship on every date, I think it would be better not to change it.
If you change it, men may assume that you couldn’t handle a C-type arrangement—or that you’re not particularly focused on an adult relationship or the allowance.
You may also receive a lot of offers at first, but those offers tend to decrease after about three months, so changing your type could end up encouraging that trend.
Additional note:
Simply put, there are:
- Men and women who want an adult relationship—and the accompanying allowance—every time they meet
- Men and women who don’t want an adult relationship every time they meet
I think you should decide based on which of these applies to you.
From a man’s perspective, with a C type, he feels at least some pressure that an adult relationship is expected when you meet. With a B type, he doesn’t feel that pressure.
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Just because someone is registered as Type C doesn’t mean she has experience working in nightlife. Some current sex workers register as Type B, too.
Changing from B to C doesn’t leave a bad impression, but changing from C to B generally isn’t viewed as favorably.