I’ve never used that service during its black period.
Since it’s a service you use when you feel you need it, I don’t think you’re required to use it twice a month.
In your case, why not first ask for advice on why your results haven’t been very good?
If they’ve received feedback from women, they may be able to shed some light on the reason, although they’ll probably have to be vague about the details.
I’ve only had one consultation. Nothing particularly significant came of it, but I do think it helps Universe build up data on its members, which can benefit everyone.
If you don’t feel you need one, there’s probably no point in having a consultation. It would just be a waste of time.
I think consultations are there to help people like you who are considering asking for advice make better use of the service.
You may also be able to clear your head by discussing things that are difficult to talk about over the phone, or sharing how things have been going recently.
As for making good use of the consultation, they can introduce women to you before you officially register, so you might want to make an offer right away.
I sometimes ask the staff for advice when making an offer, but in those cases, I was only moderately interested—interested enough to be unsure—and none of those relationships ever became long-term.
Personally, rather than dating a wide range of women, I prefer to be with the one I’m truly interested in. So I narrow down my choices myself and go all in with the person I like, without consulting the staff—basically, I figure I might as well try and see what happens.
I’m the type who gets more satisfaction from being with someone I really like than from having a safe, ordinary relationship.
What kind of relationship does the questioner want?
To put it extremely simply, a woman whom everyone else says has no good qualities at all might be wonderful to you. On the other hand, someone who seems almost perfect in every way might bore you.
What fulfills you? What makes you feel happy?
Everyone is different. What we seek and what we gain are never exactly the same.
What can satisfy you? And, just as importantly, what kind of satisfaction can you give the woman you’re seeing?
I think understanding these things will help you make the most of the experience.
It’s important not only to understand the other person, but also to understand yourself.
I wasn’t using the service twice a month; when I did use it, it was about once a month. During that period, I received more than five offers per month.
Most of what I talked about was simply giving the staff updates on my situation, and they would often respond by sharing information with me. When I first started using the concierge service, the staff would prepare women they recommended. But eventually, they began contacting me as soon as a recommended woman registered, so most of the time I was just updating them on my situation.
My suggestion for making the most of the service is to ask the staff to recommend women who left a strong impression during their interviews. Choosing someone from a different perspective instead of relying on your usual preferences might lead to something interesting.
I don’t think many people use it twice a month—at least, probably not.
In my case, I remember selecting a few candidates in advance, discussing them with the staff, and then deciding who to ultimately make an offer to. I also simply asked the staff who they would recommend.
