I went on a New Year’s date with my papa again this year.
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Since he usually has plans with his family on New Year’s Day, this was the second time we met on January 2nd or 3rd.
When I said, “Let’s go on another New Year’s date next year,” he replied, “Who knows what things will be like next year.”
When I asked why, he said something like, “You’ll be turning 30 next year, so you might get married, and I don’t know what will happen with my work either…”
I’m starting to feel negative and wonder if he’s planning to end things with me. What do you think might be going through his mind?
I need to prepare myself too, so I’m also open to some brutally honest opinions!
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Have you been seeing that papa for two years now—going into your third year?
That’s quite a long time for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
You’ve made it last well. That’s great. Still, since it’s a transactional relationship involving money, it’s best for your peace of mind to be prepared for the possibility that the relationship could end suddenly at any time.
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In my case, even when I have no intention of ending things with someone I’ve been seeing for a long time, I might still say something like that because I genuinely don’t know what next year will bring.
That said, I would find it suspicious if the subject suddenly came up out of nowhere.
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I think this happens pretty often, but some people will say, “Let’s go on another date sometime♡” at the end of an unbelievably boring date.
Really? You’ve got some nerve! lol
I usually just brush it off with a vague, noncommittal response while thinking that to myself.
This is probably one of those situations: they’re starting to lose interest, and the date was painfully boring.
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