Tips Dec 24, 2023 09:01

There’s a 68-year-old man who lives near me. He lost his wife and now lives alone. Putting his looks aside, he’s very caring and a genuinely kind person who’s well-liked by both men and women.

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He worked for many years, so I imagine he’s financially comfortable. He says, “I want to fall in love even when I’m 70 or 80. Is there anything wrong with falling in love as you get older? I’d like to have meals, go out, and travel with a calm, mature woman around 50 to 65.” Does Universe have women around that age registered? Would it be okay to introduce him to Universe?
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If he’s caring and well-liked by both men and women, it seems like he could find a genuine romantic partner around his own age through the neighborhood association, seniors’ club, or something similar. If he isn’t part of any such groups, you could introduce him to a gathering where people his age meet, like events at the community center. I’ve heard romance at nursing homes can be pretty intense too—apparently, people compete for the same person like it’s a reality show.
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Even though they say they want to fall in love, are you really recommending papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? I think only a small number of people would want to date a woman badly enough to pay for it. There are several women over 50, so why not casually ask whether they’d be open to an allowance-based relationship? They might respond, “Why should I have to pay money?”
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
“You want to have meals together, go out, and travel”? You can do all that anytime without joining a dating club, can’t you? lol Besides, at our age, I don’t think we need to call it “love” either, haha. Personally, I think it’s enough if you’re simply close and get along well.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s not that you want to have sex, nor that you want an allowance-based relationship, right? You want to fall in love, don’t you? If an old man like that goes to Universal, he’ll probably struggle to pursue an inconvenient, genuine romance, lose all his money, and be left feeling empty. I think that’s just cruel.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
If you’re going to recommend a dating club, I think it would be better to suggest one with more women in that age group registered.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Universe Club’s website says that women aged 18–45 are eligible to register, but there are also some members over 50, even if they’re not very common. As long as they understand that, I think it should be fine to introduce them if they have the financial means.
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