I’m still fairly new to this club and had a question about first dates.
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I registered as a C type and, thankfully, have received several offers. When a first date develops into an ongoing arrangement, I receive a sufficient allowance. However, lately I’ve been spending four hours with men whose first date is dinner only, receiving nothing but transportation expenses.
The LINE message from the club says that C types are booked for four hours, but if it’s dinner only, I feel that around two hours would be more reasonable.
Is it normal to be kept for a long time on transportation expenses alone, with things like being touched or kissed? Everyone has planned a next date with me, so I don’t think they disliked me. But honestly, I don’t want to be touched or kissed from the very first date without even receiving an allowance.
Is this because I’m registered as a C type? If I were an A or B type, would the first date be dinner only and would things like that be less common?
I’m struggling because I don’t know whether this is simply unavoidable to lead to a second date, or whether it’s considered normal. If the next person turns out to be like that too, I’m starting to feel reluctant about meeting new people.
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If you’re not looking for an adult relationship (intimate), maybe you could say, “I have plans afterward, so I’d like to leave in about two hours.”
Or you could just tell him from the first meeting that you’d like to go to a room…
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Wait, you’re a Type C, but if it’s dinner only, what are you supposed to do for four hours? Karaoke? Go for a drive?
Even for Type C, if it’s dinner only, I don’t think any touching should be happening.
You got stuck with a badly behaved man. Leave him negative feedback and report him to the staff. Kissing someone who hasn’t even brushed his teeth is absolutely disgusting.
And you don’t have to just put up with it, either. I think it’s perfectly fine to say, “What the hell are you doing, old man?”
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Touching a woman’s body or kissing her when you’ve just met is something only an idiot who can’t judge personal boundaries would do. It’s not normal.
Unlike a prostitution service, a dating club is a place where you can meet someone you click with and potentially develop a relationship.
There’s no need to continue seeing someone you’re uncomfortable with.
That said, I also don’t think people who can’t clearly express that they’re uncomfortable or smoothly dodge unwanted advances are a good fit for a dating club. You’d probably be better off leaving the club.
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Does every man who keeps you for a long time try to touch you or kiss you?
I understand that you don’t want to be touched or kissed when you’re only receiving transportation expenses.
That’s completely unacceptable.
However, if the only issue is being tied up for a long time, I get the feeling that you may be viewing your allowance as an hourly wage.
This may sound harsh, but if you don’t want to meet new men unless you’re getting ¥2,500 an hour, I wouldn’t want to make you an offer.
If you don’t want to meet new men, then maybe you should leave the club.
I’ve heard that even when men make offers to C-type women, some simply want to enjoy a date the first time and then go to a private room on the second date.
They say you sometimes have to take a small loss now to gain more later. If you can receive a proper allowance from the second date onward, perhaps you need to be a little more open-minded.
You may be unknowingly passing up genuinely good men.
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If it’s dinner only (no intimacy), two hours is generally a good guideline, so I think your understanding is correct.
In my opinion, physical contact is off-limits until the relationship progresses and you move to another location.
Honestly, it sounds like you’ve been matched with a bad male member, so I think you should make sure to mention it in your post-date feedback.
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With a Type C arrangement, I don’t have the courage not to invite them on the first day.
What does “not inviting them” even mean…?
I feel like it’s my obligation to make the invitation.
I think it’s only natural to want to provide what the other person is looking for…
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If she’s a C cup, you’d normally make a move on the first date. What is wrong with that guy? Is he an idiot—or a virgin? If you run into someone like that, show a little embarrassment by saying, “Not here…” and then quickly steer him toward a room. Before that, it’s better to ask, “So, what are we doing about the allowance?” and confirm the terms. Turning some clueless fool who doesn’t know the basics into a proper customer and getting your money out of him is a skill in itself. Though I guess that’s more of a Southeast Asian sex-industry technique than a dating-club one…
With a B cup, it can feel like things won’t progress unless the mood turns somewhat romantic. So, after kissing in a nice setting, you start touching her all over, slip a hand under her clothes, dramatically demonstrate the technique of unclasping her bra one-handed, conquer the upper-body territory, and advance southward—only to discover a tunnel and explore inside, leading to an unintended risk of flooding, in a development worthy of the Gaza Strip. Then you end up wondering what to do about the allowance. But with a C cup? No way.
Actually, wasn’t Universe’s rule that the first meeting lasts four hours, broken down into two hours of dinner while both sides assess each other, followed by two hours of fucking?
Taro
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