Tips Dec 15, 2023 21:12

Regarding the allowance, I’m thinking 50,000 yen, and I’d rather avoid women who expect 60,000 or 70,000 yen from the start.

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If I meet someone in person and she says 60,000 or 70,000 yen, I’d be disappointed. Is there any good way to avoid that?
👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 50s 👑 Not stated
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Apparently, on Patro, you’re allowed to negotiate the allowance before accepting an offer. According to Patro’s comments, I think it’s fine to discuss the allowance first and then accept the offer. I’ve used it myself, too.
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Allowance is certainly something to consider, but wouldn’t it be better to start by meeting women you genuinely like? I don’t know whether the member is with Universe, since they haven’t answered that, but I think it’s best to consider the setting fee a learning expense and meet a few people. When I was just starting out, I was nervous too, but things worked out surprisingly well.
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紙ひこうき
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
If you don’t want to be disappointed, then regardless of the allowance amount, don’t expect things to be efficient or produce results right away. You’re being far too impatient.
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入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m also in my 50s, so I sympathize, but please allow me to offer a somewhat harsh opinion. The women on Uchu Club will only barely take a liking to older men who know how to behave like gentlemen. And behaving like a gentleman means not showing disappointment even if you’re told “6.7.” Unfortunately, you are not a gentleman. An older man who isn’t a gentleman will have a very difficult road ahead here. My condolences.
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出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I read tarot as a hobby, so would you like me to do a reading? If you post a new question describing the candidate’s characteristics, I can see whether 5 would be okay.
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シアトル
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you find the same person on PATOLO, negotiate the terms before sending an offer. Be sure to specify whether transportation costs are included or paid separately.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I think you should try a dating club other than Universe Club. Most clubs list the allowance they’re looking for in their profiles, or will tell you if you contact them.
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