Tips Dec 7, 2023 17:10

While we were being intimate, he said things like, “Let’s keep seeing each other while we’re in a good place. We don’t need to use protection—we have a great relationship. If you get pregnant, I’ll marry you.” He accepted the allowance, but why won’t he give me his contact information?

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He also thanked me, saying that talking with me made him feel relaxed. He’s a fairly senior executive at a company.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
?? How are you meeting if you don’t have each other’s contact information? Are you communicating through the app? If by “contact information” you mean their address, then in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think it’s actually better for both parties not to know each other’s addresses.
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だて◎ゆめ
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It’s a way out in case something goes wrong. Be careful about sexually transmitted infections.
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いっつ・みぃ
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“A fairly senior executive at a company,” huh? I wonder what that really means. When I googled “the number of companies in Japan,” the result was 3.68 million. In other words, that would mean there are 3.68 million company presidents. If you include executives other than presidents, the number would be even higher. But since some presidents and executives run multiple companies, let’s roughly assume that “the number of executives ≈ 3.68 million.” That means one in every 34 people in Japan is an executive. What do you make of that? And “marriage” is just something he says, right? Has he done anything that would make his words worth believing? Since he won’t even give you his contact information, I’d say he hasn’t taken even the bare minimum of action… Statements without actions are very likely to be lies. Be careful. —It’s me
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Please take good care of yourself. I’m a bit of a chicken, so I keep about five condoms in my bag and stick to vanilla play.
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Simply put, maybe he’s looking for someone who’ll go without protection? If you believe what he’s saying, he’ll soon be suggesting meeting without an allowance. It’s a sneaky tactic disguised as sincerity. Please be careful.
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I’m the kind of woman in an allowance arrangement who only wants to say things like that and get turned on during sex—I don’t actually feel that way at all otherwise. Marika
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
Maybe it’s because he doesn’t use protection. If a problem involving a woman ever came to light at work, he could lose his position. In other words, so he can always disappear if necessary. I’m a sincere person, so when things get fairly intimate, I show the other person my business card and driver’s license.
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カズ
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Maybe he’s into that kind of play, rather than genuinely liking you. There’s actually quite a lot of porn involving pregnancy themes. By the way, are you the one giving the man an allowance?
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you’ve confirmed that he’s a senior executive, he’s probably genuinely falling for you. But if his workplace and home address might both be lies, he’s just an irresponsible guy making things up as he goes.
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