On our first date the other day, she told me that it’s rare to meet someone as nice as me, and repeatedly asked me to invite her out again during the date.
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Thinking she liked me, I exchanged LINE contact information with her and invited her on a second date. However, her replies have been very slow, and she doesn’t seem very enthusiastic.
Is it common for a woman’s attitude to change after a date?
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I understand the urge to gauge someone’s level of interest by how often they message you on LINE, but I think that’s one of the older guys’ bad habits.
These days, it’s perfectly normal for younger people to take until the next day to reply to friends on LINE, while they tend to respond more frequently to Instagram DMs. Maybe she really has lost interest, but in many cases, it’s probably simply that she’s slow to reply on LINE. Rather than getting excited or discouraged based on the frequency, I think it’s better to pay attention to the content of her messages.
Instead of becoming overly suspicious, try to enjoy the relationship with a positive mindset—it’ll likely make things much more enjoyable for both of you!
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In my experience, there have been a few times when communication stopped after we’d exchanged messages several times. But if you ask whether it happens often, I’d say not really.
People who take a long time to reply may be:
- Too caught up with their own lives
- Giving some thought to the other person
- Simply slow at responding by nature
I think it’ll become clearer what kind of person they are with a little more time, so it’s probably best to wait and see.
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I don’t consider someone a good person if they can only think that the woman’s attitude must have changed after the date. She may simply have been the kind of woman who offers that sort of lip service, she may not like LINE, the way he invited her out may have creeped her out, or she may have met someone better.
I think it’s also possible that she simply changed her mind.
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