I’ve never just gone out for tea either.
That said, if the woman suggests meeting for tea—or brings it up in conversation—I think that’s perfectly fine.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I also think it’s better to make the first meeting over a meal.
If you just reserve a table and order à la carte, you should be able to adjust things as needed.
I’d be worried that conversation might run dry if you only meet for tea at a café. It depends on the other person’s dating style, but I think things tend to go more smoothly when you make a meal part of the experience too.
I usually meet during the day, so I mainly go for lunch courses, but if you look around, there are plenty of places where both the portions and prices are quite reasonable.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I don’t think it’s a good idea to do anything too unconventional on a first date, so I generally suggest having a meal.
I choose a restaurant where you can reserve just a table, based on the woman’s profile. Once you’re there, you can decide what to order, so the amount and type of food are completely flexible.
If the meeting isn’t around mealtime, I sometimes ask whether she’d prefer tea and arrange to meet at a café instead. This happened only about two or three times out of 100 offers, and most of the women who said they preferred tea were either more sex-work-oriented or heavy app users.
Some women avoid meals because they’re working on their physique, but if I discussed it with them and suggested somewhere they could enjoy high-quality lean meat, they were happy to have dinner.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
If it’s A, B1, or B2, that could work too. I’d give her at least ¥5,000.
If she’s a C or D, I’d either give her ¥50,000 even for two hours, or tell her in advance, before making the date, that two hours is fine for the first meeting.
Personally, even for a casual first meeting, I’d take her to a restaurant. And if she’s a C or D, I’d go for the hotel option from the first meeting.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
