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Dec 2, 2023 23:42
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m not really sure~
Maybe she means, “If you get a boyfriend or another papa (male supporter) and want to end things, please tell me sooner rather than later. I’ll make the next offer and prepare another woman.”
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
As the relationship continues, you’ll probably find yourself becoming more and more captivated by my charm. It could even start to interfere with your everyday life.
To prevent that, I want you to put the brakes on my charm. If you give me a signal by saying, “This is starting to feel too intense,” I’ll deliberately turn down my appeal from that point on—just enough so it won’t disrupt your daily life.
I think that’s what he means.
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Other
He may be a kind male member. Since I’m not one of the people involved, I can’t say what his intentions are.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Men often feel a sense of guilt or inferiority about dating younger women through an allowance-based arrangement.
It’s similar to the feeling of having an affair.
At the end of the day, it’s different from a normal relationship.
Even in an affair, people often say, “Let me know if this ever becomes too much for you.”
Other
Maybe he asked because, from the man’s perspective, he realized he might be doing too much that could put a burden on women?
For example, wanting to get extremely affectionate in public, wanting to wear matching outfits, taking her to a lingerie shop under the pretense of buying her underwear, making her wear a different costume every time during their adult relationship (intimate) and recite lines according to a specific scenario, usually giving her Magikarp kisses, sometimes sucking on her entire head like a Chupa Chups, providing endless commentary à la Takashi Kato during foreplay, then saying things like “Isn’t it good?” once things get started, as if hosting Tsuruko’s All Night Nippon, generally finishing inside without a condom and doing it at least three times a night, then repeating the same joke every time: “Tamori once said he did it seven times, but that’s impossible, right?”
Still, if she doesn’t feel burdened by it, I don’t think there’s a problem.
Just reply with one phrase: “Don’t worry, Kawabata♡”
Wishing you both happiness.
Taro
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
In general, there may be times when you secretly think, “Ugh, what a pain,” about your papa (a male supporter).
So ask yourself: Am I becoming a burden? Is there anything I haven’t been able to say? Have I told him what I want? Am I holding back?
At the same time, he may simply be looking for someone with a more natural, compatible dynamic than a girl who feels like a burden or an effort.
Based on your usual words and actions, do you ever let complaints or candid feelings about your other papas slip out...?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it’s best to ask the person directly what they meant.
They probably mean that they want you to tell them if it ever starts feeling like too much trouble.