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Nov 21, 2023 14:01
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I don’t know how things will turn out yet, but I’m truly grateful to the person who helped arrange it! I’ll do my best to make the man who made the offer happy as well.
I have a question, though. I’m completely hairless. I’ve never been involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or nightlife work before—I did it simply because it was more convenient—but it seems that some people dislike it because it makes me look too professional.
I’m wondering whether I should mention it in my profile. What do experienced women in papa-katsu and men who have actually met their partners think about it? I’d really appreciate your advice. Thank you.
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Age: 50s
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I get the impression that a lot of women who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or work in the adult industry go completely bare.
Everyone has their own preference—whether they like body hair or a clean shave—but I doubt any man decides to pursue a relationship solely because a woman is bare.
If you do it because it’s more comfortable for you, then there’s nothing wrong with that.
You probably didn’t ask, but personally, I prefer women with body hair.
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I don’t think there’s any problem at all with leaving it out of your profile. Go ahead with confidence.
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Age: 50s
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Don’t worry—most women in papa-katsu are completely bare, so you’ll be fine.
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Having hair down there feels unhygienic during your period, and when it grows out, it can be unhygienic in other ways too, so even Nana Ayase had it removed.
Questioner… The term “bald” sounds like something from the sex industry. People with regular jobs don’t use wording like that.
You don’t need to go into that much detail in your profile. You’ll still get offers—after all, this isn’t the sex industry.
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Age: 40s
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Questions like this are so refreshingly peaceful.
If a woman announced beforehand, “I’m completely shaved,” I might feel too embarrassed and pressured to make an offer.
First, I’d be embarrassed that she might think I was making the offer specifically because she’s shaved.
Also, when I saw the shaved area of a woman who had made that announcement, I’d feel like it would be rude not to react somehow.
Wouldn’t it be impolite to show no reaction at all when you’re looking at it right in front of you?
The thing is, when I see that someone is shaved, I honestly just think, “Oh, she’s shaved.”
I don’t want to force myself to say something like, “Wow! It looks so beautiful!” And then I start worrying that if I did say it, she might actually find me creepy. At that point, I have no idea what the right response is.
Age: Private
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Many women have their VIO area groomed, and I rarely meet women who leave it natural. Of the nearly ten women I see regularly, only one has left hers natural.
So I don’t think there’s any need to mention it in your profile. I’ve never seen a woman who listed it in her profile, either.
As for my personal opinion, I find natural hair bothersome and unattractive. Grooming is normal, and women who don’t do it seem rather unsophisticated to me.
That said, as you mentioned, there also seem to be quite a few men who dislike it because it looks too professional. I’ve heard that AV actresses are sometimes told to leave theirs natural.
In fact, every AV actress I’ve met so far has left hers natural. Ironically, I suppose that makes leaving it natural the more professional thing to do.