I run a beauty-related company, and now that it’s finally getting established, I’d like to enrich my private life as well. On marriage-oriented dating apps, the gentlemen I meet quickly tell me they’re looking for marriage. I’m not sure how sincere they are.
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I haven’t had much luck finding meaningful connections on matching apps either. I’ve received offers from several men here, but most of them focus on money. I’m looking for something that fulfills me emotionally as well.
I used to work part-time at a high-end club, so I believe I’m good at entertaining men, but… As for the allowance, I’m not asking for much as long as we can go on dates somewhere quiet and nice in Tokyo.
I’d prefer not to see someone who’s dating multiple women, but I’d be okay with it if he responsibly manages his sexual health, including STD prevention.
I wonder if there are any men here who could truly fulfill me emotionally. If I’m out of place here, I’ll leave.
I’m Hinoki, a male member.
There are female members like you as well, I see. Male members also need to look at female members as individuals instead of focusing solely on adult relationships (intimate).
As others have already advised, I think it’s important to clearly state what you’re looking for in your profile.
With that as a starting point, you’ll need to choose from the people who apply. Compared with marriage-hunting or matching apps, I think you’re more likely to meet the kind of men you’re looking for here. Once you find a platform that seems suitable, it’s better to meet several people rather than worry too much about the quality of each individual encounter.
With relationship types C and D, men tend to focus on adult relationships (intimate), so depending on the number of offers and the responses you receive, types A, B1, or B2 might be better.
Personally, I carefully read the profiles of women with types A, B1, and B2 before making an offer.
I hope this helps.
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It’s kind of a strange post.
It starts out casual, but toward the end it switches to polite language.
Were you drunk while writing it? Or was it written by a man?
Since this is a relationship involving money, the people who don’t talk about money are actually the more dangerous ones.
If he’s a business owner—especially in the beauty industry—there seem to be plenty of networking events, drinking parties, and get-togethers held around Tokyo, so you’d probably find him pretty quickly. Why not ask someone you know in the same industry?
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As complaints from beautiful women who join these clubs often go, there seem to be quite a few papas (male supporters) who think, “Money can buy anything,” have no imagination beyond taking them to luxury hotels, or suggest a hotel every time they meet…
To make your wishes a reality, it would probably help to look for a profile that says things like:
- Monthly support target: around ¥100,000
- Personality > looks > relationship terms, with the emphasis weighted something like 7:2:1
I think there are probably not many people—men or women—with the same outlook as you, but they do exist.
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It might be a good idea to leave it in the comments exactly as written in the question. That could help prevent mismatches.
It’s interesting, so it might stand out in a good way.
There are definitely people who prefer long-term arrangements with only a small number of partners.
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I may be mistaken, but it seems the male members here aren’t quite ready to accept women with expectations like yours. That said, I believe you may find someone compatible in terms of personality and values if you go on several dates.
Why not limit the timeframe and number of people you meet, and enjoy getting to know people a little more casually? When you do, I recommend explaining your values a bit more carefully.
I hope you find someone great.
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Relationship clubs have a wide range of both men and women, so I’m sure there are men who fit your needs.
That said, if you’re looking for someone right away, timing and luck will also play a role.
I think it would be best to see how things go for about a year before making a decision.
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