We were seeing each other two or three times a week, but now circumstances have come up and we can’t meet for two weeks. I’m worried my papa might suddenly think, “Huh? Maybe I’m fine without her after all.”
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You were seeing him too often to begin with.
Keep in mind that your papa may have lost interest or found another good woman.
Let’s wait for offers from new papas. To minimize the shock, let’s get ready for a new papa.
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If you’ve been seeing each other two or three times a week consistently, there’s really nothing to worry about.
If you’ve only just met, or have been seeing each other once or twice a week or less, then I can understand having some concerns. But if meeting two or three times a week or more has continued, you’re clearly a favorite, so I think it’ll be totally fine if you explain the situation.
Taking a vacation, going back home, attending an intensive driving course, or dealing with an unexpected family matter—these things happen from time to time.
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I think it depends on whether he wants to see you two or three times a week specifically, or simply wants to meet someone.
If it’s the former, he’ll wait for you. If it’s the latter, you may lose out to someone who’s more readily available.
Being flexible with your schedule is important. I’m busy myself, so most of the people I see are women over 60 who have plenty of free time after retirement. When the other person is still working, it can be difficult to meet regularly.
If you used to see each other often but then suddenly can’t meet for a long time, he may suspect that you’re seeing another man.
In either case, it depends on how deep the relationship is. Early on, it’s probably best either to make yourself as available as possible, or, if meeting two or three times a week is too demanding, gradually help him get used to a schedule that works for you.
—Marika
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That can happen.
A lot of other things could happen in the meantime too—he might meet someone else or suddenly grow much closer to another girl.
I think you should do your best to keep him interested so he doesn’t get “snatched away” while you can’t meet.
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