I’m in the 150-cm range, so I wished he hadn’t approached me if he liked tall women. He told me that if he was going to take me out regularly, he wanted someone at least 160 cm tall.
He also told me I wasn’t his type facially. Then I thought, “Why choose me in the first place?”
Men who prefer shorter women sometimes say they don’t like tall girls. Hearing that doesn’t make me feel bad, but when it’s the other way around, it really hurts and lowers my self-esteem.
It’s not as though this particular papa (a male supporter) is especially good-looking himself.
Should I spend 10 million yen on height-lengthening surgery? I can’t stop thinking about it.
In the end, between shorter and taller women, which tend to receive more offers if everything else is equal?
Ideally, you’d have everything—an attractive face, a nice bust, and the right height. But I understand it all comes down to personal preference: a youthful or mature-looking face, a large or small bust, being tall or short.
In terms of overall percentages, which is ultimately more advantageous?
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Tall people have their own worries, and short people have theirs. Basically, I think everyone has at least some insecurities.
If there were nothing you could do about them—including cosmetic procedures—you probably wouldn’t worry as much. But knowing that surgery can change various things makes it easy to dwell on them.
That said, as the other respondents have mentioned, I think happiness comes from being loved by the person you like, so you don’t need to date someone who doesn’t boost your self-esteem.
I hope you meet an even more wonderful man soon.
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Even if you get lots of offers, there’s no point if they’re all from men like the one this time.
I think petite women tend to be more popular with a cute look, while taller women are more popular with an elegant look.
As for body type, popularity probably increases if you lean clearly toward either a very full bust or a slim figure.
However, breast augmentation is unpopular.
I don’t know whether there are implants subtle enough not to be noticed even during intimacy, but very firm, large breasts that don’t shift sideways at all when you lie down can make people suspect augmentation.
I don’t think it’s possible to create a genuinely soft, full bust.
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It must be stressful being told that neither your height nor your looks are to his taste.
Why not ask him what he likes about being with you? If his answer isn’t satisfying, you could just end the relationship.
If the allowance is generous enough that you’d be willing to pay 10 million yen for surgery just to stay with him, then put up with the occasional complaint—or whatever you want to call it—and let it slide.
Apparently, women with large breasts get a lot of offers, so why not use that papa’s allowance to get breast augmentation and then move on to another good papa?
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Poor thing—sounds like you ended up with a papa who just wants to complain.
One of the good things about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is that women have the right to choose too, so exercise that right and say goodbye.
Wouldn’t it be better for your mental health to see a papa who, like mine, constantly tells you how cute, beautiful, and pleasurable you are? LOL
People’s preferences really vary, so I’m not sure which is best. Women have different tastes in men too, right? Some like muscular guys, some prefer slim guys, and others don’t mind a little extra weight.
Personally, looking back, the women I see on a regular basis are either women who want an adult relationship (intimate), or women whose personalities are so wonderful that they more than make up for not having one. It’s usually one or the other.
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You could take it as a compliment: “You’re not my usual type looks-wise, but I find you so attractive that I really like you and want to see you again and again.”
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There’s nothing you can do with that information, so it’s best not to worry about it. I think it’s ridiculous to let the number of offers you receive control your life.
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