Are there really men who offer an allowance of over 1 million yen?
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I met someone for the first time, and he said he’d buy me a condo and give me a monthly allowance of over 1 million yen. I probably shouldn’t trust him, right?
They do exist, but be careful because some are suspicious.
I’ve seen scams online where they say it’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but ask the woman to transfer money to the man upfront instead.
Be especially careful if it’s through an app or website rather than a club.
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My papa is like that too. At first, he gave me 70,000 yen per pay-per-meeting arrangement, and we only switched to a monthly arrangement a year after our first meeting.
He told me something like:
“I’m the type who gradually increases the amount I pay as the relationship deepens. Even as a man, I can’t trust guys who throw a lot of money around from the start, and I think most of those arrangements end pretty quickly.”
I think he has a point.
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Thank you for your question. Maezawa here—I’ll answer too.
Thinking about it normally, it doesn’t sound like something you can trust, but there are people like that in the world.
For example, you could ask whether you can receive the monthly 1 million yen allowance upfront. If that isn’t possible, I think it would be better to receive it on a pay-per-meeting basis.
I’m not sure how many meetings per month they have in mind for the 1 million yen, but even if it’s four times a month, that would be 250,000 yen per meeting. So if they say 250,000 yen per meeting isn’t possible, you’d know the 1 million yen per month was probably a lie too.
That said, we can’t rule out the possibility that it’s genuine. So you could go along with it and see how things develop, while checking whether there are any inconsistencies like that.
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You’re better off not trusting him.
If he says that after you’ve been seeing each other for a long time, he may mean it to some extent. You should be able to tell from the relationship you’ve had up to that point.
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There are men out there who pay over 100 per meeting. I’ve also paid over 100 myself on several occasions.
When it comes to a monthly allowance, I’ve heard from several women about arrangements paying over 100 a month, though they often involve being extremely controlling or practically living together part-time.
Whether you choose to believe what that man says is really up to you; I don’t think it’s something other people should interfere with.
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